Writing Thank You Notes

After the whirlwind ends, and you are left with memories, sore feet, and a spouse for the rest of your life, you need to direct your attention to thank you notes. You want to write them as gracefully as you hoped you danced at the reception. Each card should be as unique as the gift and as particular as the person.

Consider our suggestions when penning your thank you notes.

Wedding Tip #1 - Money

Many guests may opt to give you money rather than a gift from the registry or other store. Do not mention the amount of money given. Do mention what you can use it to purchase or to save towards.

Wedding Tip #2 - Distant relationship

Sometimes you won't know the owner of the gift very well. They may be a distant relative or someone from your spouse's side of the family you have hardly spoken with. Give your thanks in regards to their presence at your wedding and their gift.

Wedding Tip #3 - Mystery gift

Maybe your gift is coming, but you do not know what it is yet. Focus on the giver's generosity rather than the actual gift.

Wedding Tip #4 - Group gift

Mention each person's name in the thank you card, but also present a thank you to the group as a whole.

Wedding Tip #5 - Redundant gift

You may receive ten or more coffee makers. Remember that it is the thought that is the true gift. Focus on the person's kindness and thoughtfulness rather than the café theme.

Wedding Tip #6 - Unfortunate gift

We all get at least one. Whether it is a horrid portrait of surreal ponies or sterling corn holders, undesired gifts are out there. Do not direct your disappointment towards the person. Be happy that the number of unfortunate gifts is low and let the thank you letter celebrate the giver's participation in your marital bliss.